Spar Cards

Spar Cards

Spar Cards

Learn how to have a Good Fight with Spar Cards.

I created Spar Cards out of necessity. This method has been found to be so powerful, that couples are able to transform their communication merely by sitting through a lecture of the rules of engagement.

If you feel stuck in your relationship, with your partner, your parent, your child, ex, or friend, consider using this method of reconciliation. Set up time for a Spar Cards session and experience the exponential healing power of working in dyads.

“The Spar Cards session that Leah led my partner and I through was totally transformational. My partner & I were in a very dark place. We were angry, resentful, and sad that our relationship was so filled with conflict. In the session Leah led us through, the cards and her methodology created a safe container for both of us to say what we didn’t feel comfortable saying, including something I had been stewing over for months. We went into the session in one state and left in a completely different vibrant, loving, open, caring one. It has been weeks now and the effect those cards had on us is still potent and alive. I am truly grateful and recommend that anyone, regardless of the state of their relationship, begin to use the cards in their relationship. They are transformative, opening, easy to use, and actually quite fun.”  - Taylor

“I wanted to tell you about my experience using the Spar Cards method with my daughter last night. Lucy will be 10 in August…This may have been the most focused I’ve seen her. She didn’t fidget, she didn’t look away, she wanted more. And not at all what I expected.  Thank you so much for this. I am so grateful. As hard as it is to see your child in a state of sadness and not immediately opt to stop it, letting her have that time to express herself is so important. And she was so appreciative. Lucy woke up this morning and first thing she said was that she wants to use the Spar Cars every Friday night. This is really huge.” - Candi